This Week's Song - Fire Escape by Andrew McMahon - because it is Nancy's favorite right now.


The bus was leaving the school at 8:00 a.m. for Charleston. Her class was staying overnight and returning the next evening. She worried until she was sick. She didn’t want to go, but she didn’t voice it. But, they knew. Her father knew. So did Nancy, the woman who married her father.
Shelby will turn 21 next month. After 2 years at the University of Tennessee, she moved to Idaho. Idaho. She calls her mother almost daily. She will be working in Washington this Summer. Washington. The state. Her family has not seen her since Christmas. She is flying, a young woman in charge of her future, confident where the path has led. She is looking for who she is without the fear of distance, the fear of separation, and without the fear of failure.

The card arrived yesterday from Idaho. "Dear Mom...I know that without you, I wouldn't have the courage to take chances and live my life to the fullest." That pretty much says it. Nancy had two born unto her and inherited two born unto another. She has loved and nurtured them in equal measure. She has done so without depriving one of them of the love they each need, crave and deserve. She doesn't orchestrate their lives, she supplements and fosters the life each of them is meant to lead. Cori calls every day from Australia. The boys call upon her when there is a problem or opportunity to grow. Her shoulders are broad, her love is deep, and her capacity for it all is beyond comprehension. So on a day we celebrate mothers, I lift up the mother who has done more than just love her children - she has loved mine and made them her own. she has become their guide to the universe. She inherited a broken family and made one that is unbreakable, and she continues to teach all of us to fly. Happy Mother's Day.